Growing Up In the Pond

Last night I was talking to a student in my LifeGroup about some faith issues she was struggling with on her path to maturity. she had grown up in a Christian home and had put her trust in Christ at a young age. I brought up this tadpole idea I thought I'd share here.

Like many who began following Christ at a very young age, we often struggle with our faith as we get older, particularly as we go through puberty. why is this?

I think there are two reasons, but one I want to explore is the idea of "new surrender".

When we were younger we weren't fully developed. Our physical, intellectual, emotional, and social selves weren't fully formed. We were like tadpoles, just a head and a tale. Environmentally we were stuck in the water, not fully able to do everything maturity allows us too.

When we come to Christ at this tadpole stage we give it all to God, our head, tale and the water world of our lives. But as we mature we begin to develop new freedoms and new aspects of ourselves.



Continuing with the tadpole analogy, we get get legs, and the ability to live in our true amphibious freedom both in and out of the water. When we were young we surrendered all we were to God, but now we face new aspects of ourselves, new freedoms that have not yet been surrendered.

Now I must realize that if I want to continue following Christ, I must surrender these new abilities and freedoms as well if I am to continue this walk.

1 Corinthians 13:11
When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.

What new freedoms do you have that you have not surrendered to Christ?

• Freedoms with time
• Future Career
• Media
• Friendships
• Privacy
• Drivers License
  

What new abilities do you have that should be surrendered?

• My thought life
• Anger
• Emotions
• Feelings of Revenge
• Bitterness and Envy
• Ability to serve
• Ability to use words to build up or tear down
  

Surrender is a tough word. As Americans we do not like the idea of surrender, as a nation or individuals. But the secret of finding the kingdom life is by giving up what we think we know is the way, so that we can truly find it!

Jesus said: Whoever tries to keep his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life will preserve it. (Luke 17:33)

What are you struggling with to surrender? Does this make sense in your own walk toward maturity?

If you have grown up in "the pond" of church you may struggle to find this place of "new surrender". The Jews Jesus ministered too grew up in the "pond" and struggled to understand him too. the breakthroughs happened for those who came to understand what surrender truly means.

Centered,

Mark